Forgiveness is often one of the hardest things to practice, especially when we have been deeply hurt. Even when apologies are given, we may still struggle with resentment and find it difficult to reconcile with the person involved.
In the Bible, we see powerful examples of reconciliation. In Genesis 37–50, Joseph, the son of Jacob, was sold into slavery by his jealous brothers. Yet, after rising to power in Egypt by interpreting Pharaoh’s dreams, Joseph chose to forgive his brothers and reconcile with his family when they came to buy grain during the famine.
In Luke 15:11–31, Jesus tells the parable of the lost son. The younger son demanded his share of the inheritance and squandered it recklessly. Despite this, when he returned home, his father welcomed him with love, forgiveness, and reconciliation.
What can we learn from these accounts? Regardless of the grievances we may have against others, we are called to forgive and seek reconciliation. Just as God reconciled us to Himself by sending His Son, Jesus Christ, to die for our sins, we too should learn to humble ourselves and pursue peace with others.
“For if while we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, now that we are reconciled, shall we be saved by his life.” (Rom 5:10, ESV)
Leo Deng Yong
